Every day at the salon I see women struggling with their curls. They torture their hair to make it straight. They blow it dry, iron it flat, and then coat it with products to insure that their curls won't return until the next shampoo. They often complain about the time it takes to temper their curls -- usually while proclaiming their love of straight hair. I have no sympathy for these women. They are the lucky few who where born with a built-in body wave. Curly hair is a blessing. It has a chameleon ability to mimic most straight or curly hair styles. When girls with curls are in a hurry, they can shampoo and condition their hair, add a bit of styling gel, and run out the door. They never have to touch their hair or look in a mirror during the day. They know their curly mane looks perfect. Susan Sarandon's curls keep her perpetually young and sexy. Julia Roberts' curls made her the "Pretty Woman" of our time. Debra Messing's curls continue to attract millions of adoring viewers to their TVs. Julia Louist-Dreyfus has some of the best curls in Hollywood. Meg Ryan's tousled curls and waves made her America's sweetheart while Mariah Carey's seduced the world.

Curly hair obviously is beautiful and can easily take on many different looks. You must learn how to accept and live with your curls. Most women attack their curls as though they are the enemy. This is a major mistake that often leads to a frizzy mess. Here are some simple tips to enjoy your hair, curly or straight.

1. A great haircut is essential. You must find a hair cutter who is not intimidated by curly hair. Usually this is a person who has curls themselves. They live with curls and know all the do's and don'ts of curly hair. Remember that longer hair will weigh curls down and shorter hair will release curls, making your cut look fuller. Some layering is always a good idea to prevent curly hair from taking on a triangle shape. This only looked right on Cleopatra.

2. Curly hair is dry hair. This means you're shampooing and conditioning routine is different than that of people with straight hair. You must use moisturizing shampoos and conditioners. Only use your shampoo when you absolutely must. Conditioner used as a shampoo will keep hair clean and not dry it out. Leave the smallest amount of conditioner in your hair when rinsing. This will help to keep hair pliable. Never rub you hair dry. Wrap your head in a super absorbent towel that will blot excess moisture from your hair. This will help to prevent frizz from occurring.